Saturday, September 15, 2007

Bad Girls Company: The Essence of a Bad Girl

Bad Girls Company, Rebel R Us

We engage in road rage, we drive like maniacs
We drink, smoke, and text while driving
We enjoy multitasking!
Yet, we attract, entice and entrap men
Like flies are caught by the cobweb
We may have one night stand with one
Yet, with another we may become an angel the same night
In the right company, we may even become marriage material

Just like blondes and brunettes, bad girls have lots of fun
They can be bad girls too
Bad girls precede blondes, red-haired, and brunettes
We behave badly to set ourselves apart
To test ourselves
To push ourselves
To prove something
To shock someone
To get attention when it is needed
To get a reaction
To pamper ourselves
To get our way
We behave badly because we can
We behave badly because we do not care
What others think about us
Because we will not get caught
For we know how to cover our tracks
We behave badly because we like breaking
The rules set by older men and women


Bad girls are rebels who will not stop testing the waters
We are our own kind. Do not ask us how we do it.

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Wednesday, September 12, 2007

Welcome to DivorceConfidentialPost! Get information on All Things Divorce & Separation

DivorceConfidentialPost aims at bringing the news of the divorce world. It will share with you the stories behind the high divorce rate in this country. It will bring the headaches, the rocky relationships, the bad attitude and bad faith that lead to separation and divorce. We will also provide you with the battles for custody, battles over property and wealth. DivorceConfidentialPost will also announce the divorce of celebrities as well as ordinary men and women. Everyone is equal in relationships or the battle of sexes.

Divorce humbles everyone involved. DivorceConfidentialPost will also give you a behind-the-scenes look at the lives of post divorce men and women, rich single divorcees who are entering the dating world. DivorceConfidentialPost will also look at the statistics on cheating, infidelity in marriage, the marriage of immigrants into the US and elsewhere.

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Marriage Therapy, Divorce and Other Issues

Couples Therapy Sessions



How does marriage work to tear people down, leaving them feeling bitter or diminished, dulled or lost.



She seems to want to create her own misery because of the comfort miserey provides her.

Dead and lifeless marriages abound.



To her, the deadness is very precious

What would it be like if as in the Puritan villages of old, representatives from the larger community were to step in, calm the fighting couple down, stress the larger social importance of their well-being and offer support and help by redirecting their energies away from mutilating each other toward something more cooperative?



Ah! Such isolation that modern couples are experiencing!



One of the spouses continues to be controlling and demanding, rude and uncooperative at times.



Conflicts and bad communications skills are destroyers of marriage. Divorce is the only recourse for many of them.

Couples therapy is about communication and the collection of fees. It is not a science. The couples therapist is a facilitator of conflicts and a guide to Eureka



Modern marriages are synonymous with repressed anger and dissatisfaction

On the road to divorce, a wife or a husband wants to be herself or himself. None of them may not be ready to discuss matters. Too many issues to discuss!



Some say maybe unjustly that marriage is the negation of years of freedom and independence found in divorce. Others state that divorce is the opportunity to make a better or third selection the second or third time around.



All over the land, there is a strong cry and a yearning for marriages that are stress-free and soul satisfying. What have modern marriages come to signify?



Just a long catalog of unresolved family of-origin isssues.

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